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	<title>Imperfect Clarity</title>
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		<title>The Special Two</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 19:43:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>RaysinGyrl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve hardly been outside my room in days
Cause I don&#8217;t feel that I deserve the sunshine&#8217;s rays
The darkness helped until the whiskey wore away
It was then I realized that conscience never fades
When you&#8217;re young you have this image of your life
That you&#8217;d be scrupulous and one day even make a wife
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>I&#8217;ve hardly been outside my room in days<br />
Cause I don&#8217;t feel that I deserve the sunshine&#8217;s rays<br />
The darkness helped until the whiskey wore away<br />
It was then I realized that conscience never fades</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re young you have this image of your life<br />
That you&#8217;d be scrupulous and one day even make a wife<br />
You make boundaries you&#8217;d never dream to cross<br />
And if you happen to, you wake completely lost</p>
<p>But I will fight for you<br />
Be sure that I will fight<br />
Until we&#8217;re the special two once again</p>
<p>And we will only need each other<br />
We&#8217;ll bleed together<br />
Our hands will not be taught to hold anothers<br />
Cause we&#8217;re the special two<br />
And we can only see each other<br />
We&#8217;ll breathe together<br />
These arms will not be taught to need anothers<br />
Cause we&#8217;re the special two</p>
<p>I remember someone old once said to me<br />
That lies will lock you up with truth the only key<br />
I was comfortable and warm inside my shell<br />
I couldn&#8217;t see this place could soon become my hell</p>
<p>So is it better to tell and hurt or lie to save their face<br />
Well I guess the answer is don&#8217;t do it in the first place<br />
I know I&#8217;m not deserving of your trust from you right now<br />
Oh but if by chance you change your mind<br />
You know I will not let you down<br />
Cause we were the special two<br />
And we&#8217;ll be again</p>
<p>And we will only need each other<br />
We&#8217;ll bleed together<br />
Our hands will not be taught to hold anothers<br />
Cause we&#8217;re the special two<br />
And we can only see each other<br />
We&#8217;ll breathe together<br />
These arms will not be taught to need anothers<br />
We&#8217;re the special two</p>
<p>I step outside my minds eyes for a minute<br />
And I look over me like a doctor lookin&#8217; for disease<br />
Somethin&#8217; that could ease the pain<br />
But nothing cures the hurt that you<br />
You bring on by yourself<br />
Just remembering&#8230; just remember how we were</p>
<p>When we would only need each other<br />
We&#8217;d bleed together<br />
Our hands will not be taught to hold anothers<br />
We were the special two<br />
And we ccould only see each other<br />
We&#8217;d breathe together<br />
These arms will not be taught to need anothers<br />
Cause we&#8217;re the special two</p>
<p>*Missy Higgins*</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Fear The Reaper</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2008 16:27:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>RaysinGyrl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This will be my last post for a while.  Thanks for reading. 

Don&#8217;t Fear The Reaper &#8211; Blue Oyster Cult

Everyday is a struggle
A push to make it through another 24 hours
Of arguements, conflicts, disappointments
Of feeling used, unappreciated, inadequate
invisible, abandoned, betrayed, confused, miserable, fake
I&#8217;m a bad actor and this play sucks
I&#8217;m finding it difficult to get along [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=raysingyrl.wordpress.com&blog=2366317&post=225&subd=raysingyrl&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>This will be my last post for a while.  Thanks for reading. </p>
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Don&#8217;t Fear The Reaper &#8211; Blue Oyster Cult<br />
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<p>Everyday is a struggle<br />
A push to make it through another 24 hours<br />
Of arguements, conflicts, disappointments<br />
Of feeling used, unappreciated, inadequate<br />
invisible, abandoned, betrayed, confused, miserable, fake</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a bad actor and this play sucks<br />
I&#8217;m finding it difficult to get along with anyone<br />
Let alone myself. Even I disappoint me.</p>
<p>Why do I fight everyday to breathe in and out?<br />
All that&#8217;s on the other end of that is one more day of angst and failure.<br />
Why bother &#8230; what is the point of all of this?<br />
Am I supposed to be getting stronger through trial?<br />
Cause if that&#8217;s the case, someone did bad math.<br />
When does the trial end and the rewards begin?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m one of the strongest people I know<br />
But even superheroes have their weaknesses.<br />
Achieles had his heel, Superman had his kryptonite,<br />
Raysin has her heart.</p>
<p>I just want to go back to bed and cry all day &#8212; but no&#8230;<br />
Varying entities demand that I pull myself up by my bootstraps<br />
and force feed another day of accounting nightmares,<br />
bills I can&#8217;t afford, children who are unruly, animals i can&#8217;t stand,<br />
friends who don&#8217;t understand me or are too busy to notice,<br />
family who thinks I&#8217;m being dramatic and need to snap out of it,<br />
a counselor who&#8217;s doing no good whatsoever,<br />
a physician who just wants her co-pay and doesn&#8217;t actually care.<br />
This is not living, this is barely functioning. What a waste of time.</p>
<p>Who cares is the question of the day? Does anyone?<br />
Is that why I&#8217;m so beat up; because I DO care and I live in a world where everyone else is out for themselves rather than caring for each other?<br />
Has that finally gotten the best of me?<br />
Maybe I just don&#8217;t care anymore.. maybe my caring ran out like everyone elses.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m grasping for hope here, and I find none.<br />
Not in family, not in friends, not in work, not in ANYTHING.<br />
Do you know what it&#8217;s like to LOOK for hope and come up empty handed?<br />
What is the point of living without love?<br />
I hate that the world is so broken.<br />
I hate that the world is breaking me.<br />
I can&#8217;t keep doing this, it&#8217;s just too much work for one person.<br />
I don&#8217;t fear the reaper, I fear repeating this day<br />
Over and over and over&#8230; I&#8217;m no Bill Murray.</p>
<p>&#8220;40,000 men and women everyday&#8230; Redefine happiness<br />
Another 40,000 coming everyday&#8230;We can be like they are&#8221;</p>
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		<title>FitDay Journal</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2008 19:15:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>RaysinGyrl</dc:creator>
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You can visit my FitDay food/exercise journal here:  http://www.fitday.com/WebFit/PublicJournals.html?Owner=Raysingyrl  if you want to see how I&#8217;m doing with this whole Lent/diet thing.  Ugh&#8230; I&#8217;m sick of water already.

Lent extends from February 6th through March 23rd (Easter).  I will endeavor to keep this food/exercise diary throughout Lent.  I plan to maintain some of the dietary changes [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=raysingyrl.wordpress.com&blog=2366317&post=224&subd=raysingyrl&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>You can visit my FitDay food/exercise journal here:  <a href="http://www.fitday.com/WebFit/PublicJournals.html?Owner=Raysingyrl">http://www.fitday.com/WebFit/PublicJournals.html?Owner=Raysingyrl</a>  if you want to see how I&#8217;m doing with this whole Lent/diet thing.  Ugh&#8230; I&#8217;m sick of water already.</p>
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<p align="left">Lent extends from February 6th through March 23rd (Easter).  I will endeavor to keep this food/exercise diary throughout Lent.  I plan to maintain some of the dietary changes after Easter, but I can&#8217;t wait to have a martini!  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
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		<title>I pout therefor I am&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2008 16:27:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>RaysinGyrl</dc:creator>
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Lent&#8230;. it&#8217;s difficult.  No red meat, no fried foods, nothing but water to drink.  Talk about sacrifice!  WOW!  I had no clue how hard the &#8220;just water&#8221; thing would be.  I managed to get through two &#8220;restaurant&#8221; meals without breaking the rules.  But that was just day one! 
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<p>Lent&#8230;. it&#8217;s difficult.  No red meat, no fried foods, nothing but water to drink.  Talk about sacrifice!  WOW!  I had no clue how hard the &#8220;just water&#8221; thing would be.  I managed to get through two &#8220;restaurant&#8221; meals without breaking the rules.  But that was just day one! </p>
<p>I hope your Lent is blessed with a multitude of clarity and cleansing.  I hope through sacrifice your relationship with Christ can grow by leaps and bounds.  Just go to the Word anytime you&#8217;re struggling with whatever sacrifice you opted for.  Want that piece of chocolate?  Go read a few passages in the Bible.  Tempted by a Diet Pepsi (me me me) &#8211; go to prayer. </p>
<p>Lent is more than sacrifice, it, like so many facets of Christianity is a trinity.  The three being &#8211; PRAYER, SACRIFICE, and AHMS.  First pray &#8211; that&#8217;s always a good one.  Sage advice.  First, pray ALWAYS.  Then make the necessary sacrifice(s) to honor your desire for change.  Finally be sure you give to the poor and treat people as you&#8217;d like to be treated.  Most of us are one paycheck away from being homeless &#8212; so don&#8217;t sneer at the man with the soiled clothing or the woman with ratted hair &#8211; that may be you, your child, your friend, or someone you know someday. </p>
<p>To that end, I&#8217;ve had to terminate an employee this week.  My least favorite.  This lady is terminally ill and could no longer perform her job functions.  It&#8217;s really sad &#8212; I hate this. </p>
<p>I came home to now power last nite because I failed to pay the bill.  Not that I couldn&#8217;t pay the bill, I just didn&#8217;t.  NICE!  Thankfully it was bedtime so after a candlelit episode of feeding the animals and taking showers.. we just hit the sac.  This morning I was thankful for the skylights.  <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   Most mornings I am not! </p>
<p>Auditor in the office this week, President in from Chicago&#8230;. headache from caffiene withdrawl&#8230;. I&#8217;m feeling very pouty indeed.  Keep me in your thoughts.</p>
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		<title>What Can I Say?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 20:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
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Look to the clock on the wall
Hands hardly moving at all
I can&#8217;t stand the state that I&#8217;m in
Sometimes it feels like the walls closing inOh, Lord, what can I say
I&#8217;m so sad since you went away
Time, time, ticking on me
Alone is the last place I wanted to be
Lord, what can I say
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<div>Look to the clock on the wall<br />
Hands hardly moving at all<br />
I can&#8217;t stand the state that I&#8217;m in<br />
Sometimes it feels like the walls closing inOh, Lord, what can I say<br />
I&#8217;m so sad since you went away<br />
Time, time, ticking on me<br />
Alone is the last place I wanted to be<br />
Lord, what can I say</p>
<p>Try to burn my troubles away<br />
Drown my sorrow the same way<br />
Seems no matter how hard I try<br />
Feels like there&#8217;s something just missing inside</p>
<p>Oh, Lord, what can I say<br />
I&#8217;m so sad since you went away<br />
Time, time, ticking on me<br />
Alone is the last place I wanted to be<br />
Lord, what can I say<br />
Oh, Lord, what can I say</p>
<p>How many rules can I break<br />
How many lies can I make<br />
How many roads must I turn<br />
To find me a place where the bridge hasn&#8217;t burned</p>
<p>Oh, Lord, what can I say<br />
I&#8217;m so sad since you went away<br />
Time, time, ticking on me<br />
Alone is the last place I wanted to be<br />
Lord, what can I say<br />
Oh, Lord, what can I say</p></div>
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<div>Today is a missing day&#8230;. missing me, missing you&#8230;. just&#8230;. missing.  And yes, I&#8217;m pouting.</div>
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		<title>Give it up for Lent!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 20:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
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Lent starts tomorrow &#8212; I meet with my physical trainer tonite at the gym, and begin my fasting at sundown.  I attend Mass tomorrow morning at 8am.  I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of reading about diet plans&#8230; I need to go veggie&#8230;. man that kills me&#8230;. but I&#8217;ll give it a go&#8230; here&#8217;s what it [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=raysingyrl.wordpress.com&blog=2366317&post=221&subd=raysingyrl&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>Lent starts tomorrow &#8212; I meet with my physical trainer tonite at the gym, and begin my fasting at sundown.  I attend Mass tomorrow morning at 8am.  I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of reading about diet plans&#8230; I need to go veggie&#8230;. man that kills me&#8230;. but I&#8217;ll give it a go&#8230; here&#8217;s what it says:</p>
<p><em><u><strong>Blood Group A</strong></u><br />
According to </em><a target="_blank" href="http://www.dadamo.com/"><em>Dr D&#8217;Adamo</em></a><em>, digestive system is apparently very good at remembering that our ancestors had settled, farming lifestyles, which included eating lots of grains and vegetables but little meat. Consequently, blood type A&#8217;s should follow a vegetarian diet but still avoid dairy products. This means nuts, seeds, beans, cereals, pasta, rice, fruit and veg are all on the &#8216;to eat&#8217; list. Meanwhile, calming exercises are thought to be best for blood type A&#8217;s such as yoga or golf.</em></p>
<p>Screw that yoga business &#8212; I much prefer a kick boxing or weight lifting class, or simply an hour of spinning or eliptical.  Yoga schmoga. So&#8230; following those rules I will be committing to giving up the following for Lent (40 days starting tomorrow):</p>
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<p>And add back to my routine the following positives: </p>
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<div>Take supplements daily </div>
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<div>Go to the gym 3x a week minimum</div>
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<div>Meditate for half hour daily</div>
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<p>I&#8217;ll lose weight and should be in a much better mental place.  Coming off the caffiene will not be fun, but it&#8217;s doable.  I&#8217;m sure wandering alone in the desert for 40 days was no walk in the park (that was punny) either&#8230;.. lol.  Wish me luck.</p>
<p>What are YOU giving up?  He gave His life for you, you can sacrifice for 40 days for Him. </p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 17:41:43 +0000</pubDate>
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Today is Fat Tuesday, you know what that means, much revelry and KING CAKE!  Oh man that stuff is delish&#8230;. but do you know the history?  Why do they bake babies into that ring? Here&#8217;s a history of Mardi Gras and more importantly king cake&#8230; YUMMO!





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<p>Today is Fat Tuesday, you know what that means, much revelry and KING CAKE!  Oh man that stuff is delish&#8230;. but do you know the history?  Why do they bake babies into that ring? Here&#8217;s a history of Mardi Gras and more importantly king cake&#8230; YUMMO!</p>
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<td width="56%"><font color="#ff9900"><font size="4"><span style="font-family:Arial;">King cake: A rich tradition</span></font> </font><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">The writer Robert Tallent once described Carnival as &#8220;a mock revival of monarchic rule,&#8221; and every year in New Orleans, the thrills and glories of this make-believe world begin anew on January 6, also known as Twelfth Night, with the Twelfth Night Revelers <i>bal masque</i>. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">To the casual observer it might seem a strangely formalized, if not downright quaint, spectacle. But at its heart is a ritual that is key to understanding how a sticky, coffee cake-type pastry—king cake—evolved into one of the most recognizable, and hungered for, symbols of New Orleans and Mardi Gras. </span></font></p>
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<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">The gist of the Twelfth Night Revelers&#8217; (TNR) proceedings, though subject to variations from year to year, unfold more or less as follows: Not long after a curtain is raised to reveal his majesty, the Lord of Misrule, krewe members attired as pastry chefs wheel out an enormous mock cake aglow with &#8220;candles&#8221; (actually electric lights) and pantomime cutting it with large faux baker&#8217;s knives made of wood. Depending on how lively they&#8217;re feeling, they might even stage a sword fight.</span></font></p>
<div align="justify"><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font color="#ff9900">The song &#8220;Thank Heaven for Little Girls&#8221; is the cue for the &#8220;Cake March&#8221; and first dance, which are reserved for single women seated in the call-out section on the main floor. One by one, as their names are announced, or &#8220;called out,&#8221; they&#8217;re escorted by a committeeman to the masked krewe members who requested the favor of the dance. The masker in turn leads his &#8220;call out&#8221;<span>  </span>to the cake, which is chock-a-block with small boxes. Each box contains either a small piece of real cake or a bean on a chain. As orchestrated by krewemen, who are assisted by pre-teen boys got up as &#8220;junior cooks,&#8221; only the debutantes designated to serve as maids in the court receive boxes with beans. All but one of the debs is handed a box with silver bean.<span>  </span>Whoever receives the box with the gold bean, is crowned queen.<span>   </span></font></span></font></div>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">This being the realm of make-believe, the fact that her royal fate is actually predetermined is beside the point: The ritual is designed to perpetuate the illusion that the Goddess of Chance has exerted her will through the &#8220;luck of the bean.&#8221; That everyone knows it&#8217;s a rigged game, however, doesn&#8217;t mean that the recipient of the prized trinket won&#8217;t be utterly surprised. Indeed, much depends on how well her parents, who traditionally host a pre-planned party after the ball, keep the secret. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">One of New Orleans Carnival&#8217;s most socially elite organizations, TNR held its first pageant on January 6, 1870—a parade and tableau ball entitled &#8220;Twelfth Night Revel.&#8221; (Botched orchestration in serving cake that year resulted in a famous footnotes to Mardi Gras history. More on this later.)</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><img vspace="5" align="left" width="265" src="http://www.mardigrasunmasked.com/images/2006/kk_augustine.jpg" hspace="10" alt="St. Augustine" height="385" />In drawing inspiration from the historical customs associated with making merry on Twelfth Night, the Revelers owed a debt to early Church fathers and, more specifically, St. Augustine. As Bridget Ann Henisch explains in her exquisitely rendered book <i>Cakes and Characters: An English Christmas Tradition</i>, it was during the reign of Roman emperor Aurelian, in the late 3rd century, that December 25, the winter solstice of the Julian calendar, was declared to be the official birthday of the divinity <em>sol invictus</em>, the Invincible Sun.<span> </span>&#8220;Soon afterwards the Church made a poaching raid into enemy territory,&#8221; writes Henisch,<span> </span>and &#8220;seized the day for its own.&#8221;</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">In the story of the Epiphany, as related in the gospel of Matthew, &#8220;three wise men from the east&#8221; visited the baby Jesus in Bethlehem on the twelfth day following his birth. &#8220;An epiphany is a manifestation,&#8221; notes Henisch, &#8220;and January 6 became the day appointed by the Church to celebrate the revelation of Christ&#8217;s divinity to mankind.&#8221;</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">In the 4th century,<span>  </span>the western world&#8217;s most influential preacher, St. Augustine, romanticized and embellished the story of the Epiphany. The gift-bearing wise men became &#8220;kings,&#8221; and Feast of the Epiphany, the twelfth day of Christmas, evolved into a major holiday imbued with royal associations.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Medieval monarchs would don their finest regalia, maybe even wager in a game of dice. Presents were given to children to commemorates the gifts given by the kings to the baby Jesus. In the great houses of Europe, the holiday became a glittering finale to a 12-day Christmas cycle, with elaborate entertaimnents featuring conjurers, acrobats, jugglers, harlequins and other humorous characters—notable among them the Lord of Misrule, whose task was to organize the festivities. In England—where the seasonal extravaganzas might include elaborate allegorical dramas, called masques, that paid homage to the monarch as a guardian of the state and a provider of peace and prosperity—he often was appointed on November 1, All Saints&#8217; Day, to allow him time to prepare. His reign lasted throughout the 12 days of Christmas and, according to Henisch, sometimes even extended to the traditional feast day that serves as the overture to Lent: Shrove Tuesday.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">While the Twelfth Night customs that spread throughout Europe were subject to numerous variations, one element transcended virtually every culture that observed the holiday: the choice of a mock king for the occasion. &#8220;The way he was chosen might vary,&#8221; Henisch explains, &#8220;but it was always a matter of chance and good fortune: lots could be drawn or, in the most widespread convention, a cake would be divided. The person who found a bean, or a coin, in his piece was the lucky king for the night. Sometimes he picked his own queen, sometimes chance chose her for him, and a pea secreted in the cake conferred the honor on its finder. The temporary change in status was sustained with ceremony; the king was given a crown, the authority to call the toasts and lead the drinking and, sometimes, the more dubious privilege of paying the bill on the morning after.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">&#8220;Cake and King were thus linked together as good-luck charms for the coming year. The cake, the bean and the pea were emblems of fertility and harvest, health and prosperity&#8230;. His [the King's] brief reign spanned the turn from one year to the next, and in his topsy-turvy kingdom conventions were triumphantly defied. Inhibitions were forgotten, characters changed, everyday restraints relaxed. The harsh certainties of life were softened in a haze of alcohol and high spirits.&#8221;</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><img vspace="10" align="right" width="285" src="http://www.mardigrasunmasked.com/images/2006/kk_costumeRT.jpg" hspace="10" alt="Mardi Gras King Cake Costume" height="375" />In the kingdom of Twelfth Night, the Bean King and the Lord of Misrule were in many ways kindred spirits, as both were expected to infuse the ceremonies with a lively esprit de corps. And in fact, they almost certainly share a common ancestor: the King of Saturnalia, the ancient Lord of Misrule, who presided over the Roman festival held in honor of Saturn, the god of agriculture and civilization. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Like other ancient observances tied to the winter solstice, Saturnalia commemorated the death and rebirth of nature. In its earliest, most barbarous form, human sacrifice was performed in hopes of insuring fertility and prosperity. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">According to J.G. Frazier&#8217;s classic study of myth, magic and religion, <i>The Golden Bough</i>, &#8220;it was the universal practice in ancient Italy, wherever the worship of Saturn prevailed, to choose a man who played the part and enjoyed all the traditionary privileges of Saturn for a season, and then died, whether by his own or another&#8217;s hand, whether by knife or fire or on the gallows-tree, in the character of the good god who gave his life for the world.&#8221; </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Eventually this practice gave way to the reign of a mock monarch whose duties were less hazardous. The manner of his choosing related to the mythology surrounding the god Saturn, whose reign was believed to be so just that there were no slaves or private property. Thus it was decreed during Saturnalia that all should be given equal rights, and indeed, even a slave could rule.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font color="#ff9900">Henisch: &#8220;Every member of the party had to obey the King&#8217;s command, and dance, or sing, or jump into a tub of cold water, at the royal whim.&#8221;<span>   </span></font></span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">According to Patrick Dunne, a New Orleans-based dealer in culinary antiques and art who has delved deeply into the origins of and traditions of Twelfth Night, the King of Saturnalia was chosen by throwing dice, drawing a lot, or discovering a fava bean or coin in a piece of cake. For the Romans, the fava bean was not only a symbol of fertility but a dietary staple. &#8220;Some people believe the cake was actually made from the beans as well as having the bean in it,&#8221; says Dunne.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><img vspace="10" align="left" width="309" src="http://www.mardigrasunmasked.com/images/2006/kk_costume2LT.jpg" hspace="10" alt="Mardi Gras King Cake Costume" height="395" />The festival of Saturnalia in the early years of the Roman Republic was observed on one day, December 17, but by the end of the first century A.D. it had morphed into a full week of gambling, feasting and pagan-style revelry. Soon after, the anticipation began to build for the Kalends, a New Year&#8217;s celebration that ran from the 1st to the 5th of January. &#8220;Groups of young men dressed up in animal masks and skins, or women&#8217;s clothes, and roared through the streets of Rome with the rude, rash boldness that disguises give their wearers,&#8221; writes Henisch.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Such customs had a lasting influence throughout the Roman Empire long after Rome itself had fallen. The Church&#8217;s condemnation of paganism notwithstanding, ancient rituals involving food and drink, character change and disguise, and the suspension of the usual social order during the reign of a Bean King were absorbed into Judeo-Christian tradition. In Europe from the 16th century ownward, Carnival came to be more or less accepted by Church fathers as a necessary period of foolishness and folly before the fasting and abstinence of Lent. (Because the day before Ash Wednesday, which marks the beginning of Lent, was one of feasting, it came to be known as Fat Tuesday or, as the French would say, Mardi Gras.) </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">If the more raucous side of the old Dionysian spirit survived in the climatic finale of Carnival, the holiday variously known as Feast of the Epiphany, Twelfth Night or King&#8217;s Day offered refinements on familiar themes and symbols. Hence the passion for masquerading on Twelfth Night that arose in Italy during the Renaissance and then spread to France and England. <i>Bals masques</i> became the vogue. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font color="#ff9900">And &#8220;Twelfth cake&#8221; continued to be a source of enchantment, as the holiday became an occasion for bakers to promote their art—not only in<span> </span>shop windows but also by parading their creations through the streets. Illustrations and detailed, rhapsodic descriptions of lavishly decorated specimens would appear in <em>The Illustrated London News</em>.<span>  </span></font></span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">For some confectioners, however, size was the true badge of nobility. In an 1811 advertisement, one boasted of an &#8220;Extraordinary Large Twelfth Cake&#8221; that, measuring 18 feet in circumference weighing &#8220;nearly half a Ton,&#8221; was &#8220;ready for Public inspection.&#8221; </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">In England, the rise of Twelfth cake as an object of veneration coincided with the decline of the old method choosing m<img vspace="10" align="right" width="347" src="http://www.mardigrasunmasked.com/images/2006/kk_plastic_babies.jpg" hspace="10" alt="Plastic King Cake Babies" height="256" />ock royalty. By the 1830s, according to Henisch, the bean and pea were no longer buried in the cake, and so the frenzied search for them, which sometimes resulted in culinary carnage, was no longer part of the game. The excitement had shifted, instead, to a bowl, hat or bag containing slips of paper or illustrated cards, each denoting a character whose name typically defined an identity (e.g., King, Queen, Fanny Flirt, Jerry the Jester, Sir Arthur Argue, Miss Sprightly, Lord Dashaway). Each member of the party would pick one out and thus have a chance to shine as someone else. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">As the new ritual caught on, caricature fever swept England. Everyone collected prints, cards, card wrappers and envelopes with witty, satirical, naughty designs featuring Twelfth Night cakes and characters. The cake which often dominated the wrapper designs was used as a billboard to comment on everything from military victories and affairs of state to royal occasions and ballooning exploits.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font color="#ff9900">The century between 1760 and 1860 marked the heyday of Twelfth Night in England. But as the Industrial Revolution kicked in, curtailing the time available for an extended season of frivolity, Christmas and its attendant commercial possibilities began to take center stage. Trees, Christmas cards and new kinds of books for children, along with traditions such as Bringing Home the Yule Log, Hanging up the Holly and Kissing Beneath the Mistletoe, usurped the prerogatives of Twelfth Night&#8217;s cast of characters. As Henisch puts it, &#8220;Christmas day was transformed from the first scene into the grand climax of the drama&#8230;,&#8221; leaving Epiphany marooned. Traditional Twelfth cake was replaced by a full-blown Christmas dinner with a large plum pudding.<span>   </span></font></span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">But in Continental Europe, where the Roman Empire left a more lasting legacy, the ancient traditions associated with the winter solstice and Epiphany endured. The ritual of hiding a tiny treasure in the celebratory cake was, indeed, a symbolic reenactment of Epiphany. In France, the bean—<i>la feve</i>—eventually was replaced by a bean-sized baby Jesus; its discovery commemorated the discovery of Jesus&#8217; divinity by the Magi. Legend has it that the cakes were made in the shape of a ring and colorfully decorated to resemble a bejeweled crown. </span></font><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span></font></p>
<p><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">It became a tradition to serve the cake with paper or cardboard crown on top. Whoever found the hidden trinket, would get to wear the crown and choose a consort. <img vspace="10" align="left" width="317" src="http://www.mardigrasunmasked.com/images/2006/kk_porc_dolls2.jpg" hspace="10" alt="Collectible King Cake Dolls" height="246" /></span></font></p>
<p align="justify"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Today, the most popular variety of king cake in France is the <i>couronne</i>,<span> </span>French for &#8220;crown.&#8221; Round like a donut and made with sweetened, egg-enriched <i>brioche</i> dough, it comes decorated with coarse granular sugar, red- and green-glazed cherries and a golden apricot glaze. The trinkets, meanwhile, have become a phenomenon unto themselves. Each year brings new variations—entire sets of highly anticipated collectibles, which are aggressively promoted by bakers.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Given the deep historical roots of France&#8217;s pre-Lenten pastry obsession, it&#8217;s hardly a coincidence that among the colonial outposts of the New World, no city embraced Twelfth cake, or king cake, with as much fervor as<span> </span>New Orleans. Creoles, as New Orleanians of French and Spanish decent took to calling themselves, adopted the French Twelfth Night cake custom and melded it with their party-loving ways—in particular, the Spanish custom of throwing grand balls where a king and queen were chosen. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font color="#ff9900">By the late 18th century, a season of balls, called <em>les bals des Rois</em> (the balls of kings), was well established. On Twelfth Night, the celebrants would wait until the stroke of midnight to cut the cake—a French-style pastry, <i>gateau des Rois</i>,<span> </span>filled with <i>frangipane</i> (made from almond paste, eggs, butter and sugar). Inside was a bean, almond, pecan or perhaps even a jeweled ring.<span>    </span></font></span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">If a queen was crowned, according to <i>The Times-Picayune&#8217;s Creole Cook Book</i>, she would choose her consort by presenting him with a bouquet of violets. But if a man found the hidden token, the women would parade in front of him. As recounted in the <i>Creole Cook Book</i>, which was first published in 1901, &#8220;He would take his stand near the mantel, the music would strike up, and the beautiful promenade around the room would begin, the gentlemen gracefully offering their arms to the ladies, the latter laughingly complying with the old custom of passing before the king while he chose his queen. No doubt there was much secret vexation among these bonny girls as they passed on and on, the king seemingly unable to make a choice. Suddenly he advanced, and taking a flower from the lapel of his coat, he presented it to the lady, and, if it happened to be a ring in the cake, often as not it was a magnificent diamond, too, that he passed to her.&#8221;</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">A merry-go-round of balls would follow, ending on Fat Tuesday. Each week a<span> </span>new king and queen were crowned. The reigning queen would host the next gala at her home; the king, however, was expected to foot the bill. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">While the early pre-Lenten festivities in New Orleans were dominated by Catholic Creoles, the founders of the first Carnival societies, or krewes, were Protestants of Anglo-Saxon descent. Accordingly, English Twelfth Night traditions became a source of inspiration for the members of the Mistick Krewe of Comus, founded in 1851, and the Twelfth Night Revelers. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">In 1859, the theme of the Comus pageant was &#8220;The English Holidays&#8221;. As described in Henri Schindler&#8217;s book <i>Mardi Gras: New Orleans</i>, &#8220;The cast, all afoot, marched inside towering papier-mache creations depicting Twelfth Night, May Day, Midsummer and Christmas. The Lord of Misrule was accompanied by the Abbot of Unreason with Cards, Chess, and other games of chance; an enormous Twelfth Cake, its bottom layer almost touching each curb on the narrow streets, struggled forward to deafening applause.&#8221;<img align="right" width="317" src="http://www.mardigrasunmasked.com/images/2006/kk_gold_bean.jpg" hspace="10" alt="Gold King Cake Bean" height="286" /></span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">In 1870, the Twelfth Night Revelers debuted with a procession of floats, or <i>tableaux roulants</i> (rolling tableaux), followed by a ball at the New Opera House, where the first queen in New Orleans Carnival history was due to be anointed. But after a gigantic cake containing a gold bean was rolled out and sliced, things quickly got out of hand. An attempt was made to distribute slices from the ends of spears that some of the krewemen had carried in the parade; slices were also reportedly thrown to ladies sitting in boxes. If any lady found the bean, she did not step forward. Quite possibly, the trinket was simply lost amid the confusion.</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">At the ball the following year, the Lord of Misrule wasn&#8217;t about to leave anything to chance. Indeed, writes Schindler, he &#8220;knew which slice contained the bean, and when he saw the young lady receive it, strode to her and before the assembled guests, crowned her Queen of the Ball.&#8221;</span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Because Carnival is a highly dynamic phenomenon, traditions are constantly being reinterpreted and invented anew. In the case of TNR, even though the real cake wound up being replaced by a mock cake, the &#8220;luck of the bean&#8221; ritual has endured. </span></font></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font size="2" color="#ff9900" face="Arial">While the practice of using king cake to divine royalty was never widely imitated by other Carnival krewes, the toothsome treat nevertheless became more than just a symbol of the festivities: At king cake parties, generations of New Orleans children became familiarized with mock royalty—a concept fundamental to the rituals of Carnival—and teenagers learned the social niceties of drinking, dancing and mingling with members of the opposite sex. </font></span></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font size="2" color="#ff9900" face="Arial">When the cake was served, if a girl found the lucky token—in time the bean was replaced by a porcelain doll, which in turn gave way to a plastic &#8220;baby&#8221;—she was obligated to have the party the following week. The young man she designated to be her king was responsible for supplying the king cake. Accordingly, if a young man found the token, he would designate one of the girls to be his queen. However, in keeping with the prevailing custom of the reigning queen assuming the role of host, she&#8217;d still be expected to throw the next party.</font></span></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2" color="#ff9900" face="Arial"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Alas, times have changed. Nowadays, teenagers are more likely to have king cake in school than at king cake parties hosted by their peers.<span> </span>As for adults, offices have become a prime venue for seasonal rituals involving king cake.</span></font><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font size="2"></font></span></p>
<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font size="2" color="#ff9900" face="Arial">The cakes themselves have changed, as well. The almond-paste-filled pastry puff<span>  </span>that&#8217;s traditionally associated with northern France—the <i>gateau des Rois</i><span> </span>enjoyed by the old Creole gentry in New Orleans—can still be found at some specialty bakeries. But by far the most popular style of king cake these days has more in common with the Bordeaux Twelfth Night cake of southern France—the aforementioned <i>couronne</i>, which is made from <i>brioche</i> dough. (Key differences: The New Orleans version is rolled with cinnamon, covered with purple, green and gold sugar or sprinkles and typically comes iced rather than glazed.)</font><font size="2"></font></span></p>
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<div align="justify"><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">New Orleans bakers, a decidedly restless and competitive breed, are generally more prone to experimentation and innovation than their more tradition-minded Gallic counterparts—at least when it comes to king cake. Chocolate, blueberry, cream cheese, pecan praline, even crawfish—these are but a few of the fillings now offered in New Orelans-style king cake. Moreover, king cakes come in shapes and colors to complement just about any holiday or special occasion. So, for example, a Christmas king cake might be formed and decorated to resemble a wreath, while a birthday king cake might be made in the shape of numerals.</span></font><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span></font></div>
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<p align="justify" class="MsoPlainText"><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"><font color="#ff9900">And while in France the trinkets are more varied and collectible, the New Orleans king cake baby has evolved into an endearing symbol of Mardi Gras. Thus, metallic purple, green and gold king cake babies now adorn beaded Mardi Gras necklaces, while babies cast from gold and silver are used in lines of jewelry. What&#8217;s more, black babies and even glow-in-dark-babies with angel&#8217;s wings have appeared on the scene.<span>  </span></font></span></font></p>
<p><font size="2" color="#ff9900"><span style="font-family:Arial;">Meanwhile, thanks to the advent of express-shipping services, New Orleans king cake culture has spread throughout the United States and beyond. As a result, &#8220;I got the baby!&#8221;—the cry announcing that a party-goer has received the slice of cake with the baby—is literally, during Mardi Gras time, a cry heard round the world.</span></font><font size="2"><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span></font></p>
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<p>Tonight I worked off some anger by cleaning my bathroom which was gross to say the least.  It&#8217;s a wonder any of us have any hair left on our heads because it was everywhere on the linoleum.  Sticky from hair products and spray&#8230; toothpaste on the sink, the boy can&#8217;t hit the toilet in the morning&#8230; JUST PLAIN SICK!  Anyway, so an hour and a half later, after having swept, scrubbed and gotten down on my hands and knees to use the &#8216;magic&#8217; sponge.. I must say the bathroom is now the cleanest room in the house.  You could EAT off that floor&#8230;.</p>
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<p>Dear Audacious Associate -</p>
<p>You are an egotistical disgusting pig of a man.  That you would think it was acceptable, let alone tolerable for you to CLIP YOUR NAILS AT YOUR DESK during work hours in an open floor pattern office is utterly attrocious.  There are people who sit next to you, people who, like me, must trapse through &#8220;your&#8221; workspace and we don&#8217;t need to be exposed to your utter arrogance.  It&#8217;s mind boggling!</p>
<p>Would you like me to exfoliate my feet at my desk?  Hell I have a hard enough time justifying eating lunch at my desk, even when I have an auditor in house, yet you&#8217;re completely content imposing your DNA schrapnal on the lowly peasants who have the misfortune of being in firing range. </p>
<p>I know you&#8217;re a V.P., but who isn&#8217;t around here?  Those initials should not entitle you to such repugnant behavior.  I&#8217;m H.R., do I really need to send you a memo?  Were you raised by wolves?  Your parents must be so proud. </p>
<p>What you were practicing this morning is referred to as PERSONAL HYGIENE &#8212; not PUBLIC hygiene &#8212; not WORKPLACE hygiene.  Just like I don&#8217;t need to see my female counterparts administering their Vagistat 9, I don&#8217;t need to see or hear you clipping your nails!  You are nothing short of repulsive!  I don&#8217;t care how much money you have, how big your house is, who you know, or what you drive.  Wealth does not equate to class and you Sir (and I use the word Sir loosely), are shameless and slatternly and I wouldn&#8217;t touch you with a 10 foot pole.  Good day.</p>
<p>I said GOOD DAY!</p>
<p>On a separate note &#8211; I heard they&#8217;re going to remake &#8220;9 to 5&#8243; &#8211; can&#8217;t help but go there in my head right about now.  Thank God for YouTube! <br />
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I tattoo therefore I am.  Here&#8217;s a montage of my tattoos, note to self I REALLY need to pay better attention to sunblock&#8230;  You can tell by the fading which tattoo&#8217;s came first. ;(
The color on the wrist flowers was just added last nite &#8211; my arm is swollen and typing hurts.  I think I&#8217;ll [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=raysingyrl.wordpress.com&blog=2366317&post=217&subd=raysingyrl&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>I tattoo therefore I am.  Here&#8217;s a montage of my tattoos, note to self I REALLY need to pay better attention to sunblock&#8230;  You can tell by the fading which tattoo&#8217;s came first. ;(</p>
<p>The color on the wrist flowers was just added last nite &#8211; my arm is swollen and typing hurts.  I think I&#8217;ll just go root for the <strike>Patriots </strike>Giants!</p>
<p>Enjoy the slideshow! Let me know what you think. </p>
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